The Socialites Club
Where Elegance Becomes a Way of Life
Behind every door we open, there is laughter, candlelight, and the soft clink of glasses. We are women who choose beauty—not for display, but for the quiet joy it brings into our everyday lives.
A World Designed for Women Who Live with Grace and Sparkle
Here, friendships bloom naturally, ideas are born between courses, and confidence rises in the warm glow of being truly seen. You’re not simply joining a club—you’re entering a world where every gathering is thoughtfully curated to make you feel celebrated, connected, and inspired.
A Circle, Not a Network
While we proudly partner with a select group of local businesses who help us host elevated gatherings, The Socialites Club is not a networking group. Think of us instead as a modern women’s country club—where friendship, elegance, and shared experience come first, and business only flows if it unfolds naturally.
NOCO Style Magazine
Did me the honor of writing a story about The Socialites Club — and about how we’re bringing glam to NOCO. I couldn’t be more thrilled to see our vision for elegant connection and fine living celebrated in print!
From Nancy O
Raised amid the golden charm of San Francisco in the 1950s, I was taught that true grace lives in the details — the flicker of a candle, the welcome in a hostess’s smile.
The Socialites Club is my love letter to that era — a place where women rediscover the pleasure of dressing up, slowing down, and living beautifully.
XOXO Nancy O
We Welcome New Members
I take genuine joy in gathering women who lift one another — where friendship blooms easily, laughter flows freely, and beauty is found in every shared moment.
It would be my honor to welcome you to The Socialites Club — a gracious circle where every woman is seen, celebrated, and called by name.
Whether you’re new to the area, longing for connection, or simply drawn to the idea of living a little more beautifully, you are warmly invited to explore membership.
To begin, please submit an application. You’ll then be contacted to schedule a personal conversation with Nancy O, a gentle, friendly interview designed to ensure that every woman who joins feels instantly at home the moment she walks through the door.
If you’ve been referred by an existing member, you’re invited to attend one of our gatherings first — to experience the spirit of the group and see if it feels like home for you.
We look forward to getting to know you — and, hopefully, welcoming you into our circle.
Meet our Esteemed Community Partners
Handpicked local favorites—trusted businesses we love and use—
help keep events extraordinary.
Trusted by Nancy O